For whosoever will save his life shall lose it… – Jesus
I used to be disgusted, now I try to stay amused… – Elvis Costello
Looks like I’m getting a little link happy. It’s easy, given the widely-reported parade of character poverty that is the human experience. I think I’ll take an aside, and make an observation about what I see going on in the lives of people around me.
We have been an affluent society. Even our poor people are mostly fat, clothed and sheltered. Look at any handout line, and you’ll see that 80% of the people are morbidly obese. I think we’re not just obese in our bodies, but obese in our spirits as well. Flabby, flaccid, lazy.
One thing that I see is a neuroticism that arises out of trying to “keep the stuff that I have.” People are wigging, in changing times, trying to keep all the corners of their position pinned down. When people lose their jobs, or assets, or prospects, they run themselves ragged attempting to keep their house, or their career path, or their retirement plans.
If you want peace, then you’ve got to be ready to part with stuff. You have to be grateful for what you have. I keep my sanity by counting on the Providence that’s gotten me this far.
Suppose I lose my house. Suppose I lose my health. Suppose my spouse dies. Suppose my children go hungry. “It’s all them supposes that keep you miserable.” I began this life blessed, I will lose this life blessed, and any stuff I lose along the way was going to be lost anyway. It’s hard to see my friends, associates, clients, the guy on the barstool next to me, in the grip of the “supposes” nowadays.
On a micro scale, we have never been in control, and never will be – regardless of how much we strive for it. On a macro level, government will never be in control, regardless of the resources it expends in the land of diminishing marginal returns. When we strive for control, the very fabric of the universe conspires against us.
We need to strive, instead, to be blessed and to enjoy those blessings we already have. We don’t earn them, but we can put ourselves in better position to receive them, both as individuals and as a country.